does sincerity pay

what if you get up in the morning having no direction.no kid to send to school, no husband going to office. You are just getting up doing everyday morning ablusions . There is a servant to make your everyday food and maid to do other chores. you are practically doing nothing but still getting stressed out. This leads me to conclude that stress is not only in the lives of extremely busy people but its very much a part of idle people also. Its a depressing life one can lead. We are always told that its one life and we should live it to the fullest. if we  come to think about it, is our life actually ours in the truest sense. There are expectations from the people around you. You are expected to behave in a particular way. PEople who are actually able to break this are referred by different names.On the other hand i have seen these people getting successful in life. We are told to be sincere in lives but isn't sincerity lead to suffering lots of times. Sincere people have to be after insincere and indiscipline people to get things right, this is such a stress on the mind. Sometimes i feel that everything works according to people who are non adjusting. Adjusting people are taken for granted. You do get praises for being adjusting but thats it.. you have to suffer because you have to stop listening to your heart and have to do what others expect you to do.
This conflict goes on in my mind very many times but i dont get any conclusion. I am not saying that one should become insincere but we need to introspect and see where it is respected and where its not ?